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Big Jobs

 

 

If you’re going big, dream big right?

DreamingBig

Just kidding. This post isn’t about big cars but it seemed a fun intro! This post is however about the connection between big jobs/decisions, and the corresponding big requirements and tools. My husband and I are in the process of helping take over the care and maintenance of my parent’s home and 3.5 acre yard. We have built them a handicap friendly apartment off the main house, which I’m happy to report today is almost completely finished. This has been a big decision/project for a big problem. My first lesson is when life gives you big problems you have to be willing to make big decisions. My parents needed help, of my siblings I am at the current stage of life when providing the needed assistance is a better fit. We’re learning lots along the way and maybe someone else out there will benefit from me documenting my progress and lessons. To anyone who may be dealing with the issue of how to help care for aging parents with big health concerns/problems I highly recommend this avenue. We are close enough to be of real help while still having separate living quarters – both of which have been suited for individual needs. For the first time in my married life all of our financial resources are going toward true financial independence and the benefit of more than just ourselves. And that my friends, is truly a wonderful feeling.

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So the pictures I saw this morning that made me think of this post were these:

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These two pictures of of the same area, the one on the left taken a few weeks ago when I began the process of clearing wild and unruly growth of weeds and such, the one of the right is the way it looks today after the cleaning job has been done. This was a BIG job and it required BIG tools. Actually, it required bigger knowledge than either myself or my husband had on what the right tool would be to begin with. Enter my next lesson, make use of your local tool rental business. And I’m not just talking renting their tools for jobs, I’m talking about picking their brains and experience for finding the right tools to begin with. Our local rental company has been great to work with. We walk in, tell them what we’re dealing with and the owner slaps down several options and suggestions. For this job we learned they make weed whackers with blade attachments. Who knew? So all it took to cut down all these nasty wild, thorny bushes and vines was a souped up weed whacker. Better yet, we were able to rent it for half a day for a whopping $25. No worries about breaking equipment, just put the petal to the metal and get the job done. Additionally, our first discussion for this job brought on other suggestions for yard problems we’re yet to deal with this year. All in all, a very successful trip!

Sadly, the one job that I’ve found still requires a lot of manual labor and simple pruning sheer is trimming fruit trees. The simple decision of the fiskar sheers with long handles provides enough leverage right at the point of cut that it works really well. The downside is it takes a long time and requires a lot of climbing and precarious positions to successful trim back the trees. Here’s my son after trimming just one of eight:

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This is where having extra acreage works well because you can haul all these trimmings to a big pile in an empty pasture for future burning. Our pile is getting pretty big!

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The next lesson we’re learning is how to break big jobs down. When looking at something a large as 3.5 acres you have to find a system or go crazy. A few weeks ago we decided we would take one  hour each morning (weather permitting) and spend it together doing something in the yard. This morning we were able to get the garden cleared of last year’s corn stalks and tilled under. We were also able to move the last tree trimming and raspberry patch trimming moved over to the burn pile.

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This sounds simple but it’s really monumental. It’s the reality that small, consistent effort yields big results. There is also great value in feeling you have a partner helping you with really big jobs. For me, it’s truly that “spoonful of sugar that helps the medicine go down.”

Finally, I’m learning how important it is to pace yourself on big jobs and go step by step. When looking at a house that needs a lot of renovation and remodeling, it is easy to get overwhelmed. It is also too easy for someone of my personality to jump in taking on too much too fast. I’ve had to learn the value of recognizing that this is a process not just a project and I need to expect to implement the same monumental truth that consistent and paced efforts will bring the best results. This is difficult when you’re looking at projects in the various stages of remodeling! I have visions of how the kitchen will look when it’s finished and it’s hard to walk into it every day and know I can’t jump on those cabinets or floor yet. But I know I’ll get there because what I’m currently working on will enable me to start on those projects next. This week I started the process of removing sheetrock on two walls of a room we’ll be removing. The goal is open up the living space and move dining room furniture into that space.

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Sometimes jobs just have to come piece by piece – like taking out drywall. But the good part of that is cleanup is also in smaller chunks! If you are or are married to an electrician then going after electrical issues isn’t a big deal. For the rest of us, I highly recommend hiring this service out. In fact, this is another great lesson learned – hire the right people for the right jobs that are beyond your abilities. Electrician and plumber are two jobs you want done right! We got the interior of the walls we’ll be taking out opened up so our electrician could come see the wiring and make some determinations about the requirements and time to safely move light switches and remove outlets. When his part is done later this week we can continue tearing out the walls and I can start work on my brown paper floor. Stay tuned for that day because there’s some fun decorative twists I’m excited to try with it!

So there’s today’s share. It’s nice to take a break from all that muscle building work and type for a bit!

 

It’s crazy to think it’s already April of a new year! The past six months have been a blur for me. My time has been spent doing many of the same things I’ve always done, it’s just been framed in a new setting with a long list of extra house renovation projects. This alteration has thrown some interesting curve balls and time consumption. On the upside, it’s also brought a new chapter of knowledge, experience and satisfaction to my life. I’ll make a comparison to a traditional activity common to this area where I grew up: Spring Burns.

In the farming community where I now live and grew up, there is a big spring clean up process that involves clearing the water irrigation ditches of weeds and debris. If everyone does their part, the first flow of water is more successful and the coverts don’t get completely clogged and blocked. It’s not a small task. For every driveway that crosses a canal or ditch (which includes most of the residences), there is a covert. Additionally, the constant flow of water during the growing season makes an easy life for weeds/grass and thus they grow plentifully and tall along the banks.When the water drains in the fall and the winter comes, a big mess of dry, dead stalks are all that’s left come spring. This is not just an eyesore, it’s a problem for getting water where it needs to go when the growing season comes again. It’s a problem that must addressed, year after year. For most of the world, the solution would be to apply weed killer to the banks through out the year preventing such growth. But those chemicals don’t bode well for farmers and their crops, nor for the end user who doesn’t want chemically contaminated food. So the most efficient and farm friendly way of dealing with this is to set fire to the dead mess. The fire burns quick and hot leaving a black but cleared path. It also eliminates the need to cut or haul away copious amounts of debris. It’s a smoky job and it stinks – literally. As a child I dreaded this process knowing that riding a bike would inevitability lead to riding through several nasty smoke clouds and I hated the look of the charred black areas after the fire was done. As an adult, I hate being the one who has to control and manage the fire and smoke and I still dislike the look after it’s done. But, for all that it’s a great fix to a big problem and the black quickly gives way to new green life, perhaps even enhances it’s appearance.

SpringBurn

In life, I find that we often have to tackle big clean up projects.

The past several months have been a big process of spring burns for myself and my family, figuratively speaking. Helping my mom clean up and downsize to an environment more conducive to her and dad’s lifestyle needs has been a big clean up project. In addition, the process of clearing, cleaning and updating the home I grew up in has been a project of comparative size and proportion. But just like the spring burn, the results are worth the effort.

Today I see some of these projects coming full circle:

LaundryBefore LaundryAfter

BathBefore BathAfter

FuseBoxBefore FuseBoxAfter

And time marches on. Some projects see completion, others just beginning and still others are ongoing. Through it all life continues to move ahead. My daughter is now driving – yikes! And my son has been playing up the stage with a lead in his school play and placement in the top 10 of the city spelling bee. I couldn’t be happier as mom.

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When I find myself feeling overwhelmed, I’m going to remember the lesson of the spring burn. Change is hard. Work is hard. The efforts are worth it. Time moves quickly. Taking time to stop and enjoy the flowers while they’re growing is a necessity because as with all things, they don’t last. Here’s to spring cleaning, making way for good things and enjoying the good things I already have.

Here A Little…

It’s definitely a “here a little, there a little project”, but I’m happy to share that I’ve been updating some of my LDS resources pages and files this week. I noticed on my stats page that the top three things people are searching for are hitting my Jungle Theme for young women, Activity Days page/files and brown paper floors. So I figured it was worth the time to go update some of those pages. The Jungle information can now be found on the YW Events & Activity Ideas page as well as many other great theme and activity ideas. I’ve also updated the Primary page with two new pages, one for leadership tools and one for visual aids. It’s been fun to review things I’ve done in the past and remember the experiences. I sure wish I’d had some of these ideas and resources when I began these projects!

 

It’s Cold

Winter

It’s January, in Idaho and it’s cold! These are the days when I really miss the warm Arizona sunshine.

Things are continuing to move forward. The new build is getting sheet rock put up today. With any luck at all, mom and dad may be able to move into their new place by February. Every where I look there are more projects waiting to be done, but each step gets us closer. Getting new appliances for my birthday was a pleasant surprise and a great addition to the kitchen.

It’s hard to believe a new year has begun again. The end of the world continues to elude its predictors. 2013 will be a year of continued changes. Change is the only constant I’ve decided. But it’s not all bad. Change is also the catalyst of progress and growth. I’m ready to grow out of winter now. Please hurry spring.

Several weeks ago, I shared some initial thoughts and photos on putting down a brown paper bag floor. Today, I have some updates! While I still have a lot more of this project ahead of me, I’ve been super pleased with the results and I’ve learned a lot along the way.

I’m grateful for friends who planted this idea in my head years ago when I first began blogging. I’m even more grateful that after many years of hazy memories I could google the words “brown paper floor” and find every tutorial and answer known to man! However, even the best tutorials didn’t address some questions and information I later learned through experience.

All you need is a desire and a few supplies to get started. You can use any type of paper, for the leather look using a brown paper is best. I ordered a roll from Amazon for about $16. It covered well over 700 square feet. The only other product required for application is a glue for wetting and adhering the paper to the floor. Once the floor is dry you need to protect and strengthen it with several coats of polyurethane. This is the brown paper floor in a nut shell. It’s an incredibly inexpensive flooring option that looks great.

Application is a simple process of tearing the paper into whatever size pieces you desire and like the look of. You crumple the paper into a ball, let it absorb glue and then smooth it out flat on the floor. You overlap the pieces as you go and let it dry.

This is what it looks like when it’s wet, and the same area when it’s dry:

 

There is a BIG difference in putting down this floor on wood versus concrete. Both work, but there are definite differences. Concrete requires a stronger adhesive to stick and the paper doesn’t dry as smooth or flat. I couldn’t find a way to avoid this, you can work and work each piece to lay flat while putting it down but as it dries there are just places where it will wrinkle and lift a little. The good news is that the look you’re going for is worn leather so wrinkles fit in just great!

 

Both of these photos are from the basement where I put this floor down. The one on the left is a direct look down, the one on the right is a distance shot across the floor. Both pictures have the same dried coats of top coat (polyurethane), the lighting and angle are what explain the different look. The color variations in the paper are a natural process of the way the crumpled paper absorbs the glue and how it dries. You can see from the picture on the right how the gloss sheen adds to the finished look of the floor, if you prefer a less glossy finish you simply use a satin version of polyurethane. I read many recommendations to lightly sand in between each coat for a smooth finish. I found this impossible on the concrete floor because there are some seams and wrinkles that already interfered with the completely smooth finish. At this point, I’ve simply paid more attention to these areas when applying the sealant coats giving those spots a little extra. Honestly, I can’t see that not sanding between coats has had any negative impact on my flooring. Additionally, it’s flooring that will eventually be covered with area rugs and furniture. To date, I’ve put down three coats of polyurethane, I plan to do one or two more. One great advantage to this floor is it’s flexibility. Additional coats of polyurethane could be added at any time during the life of the floor for added endurance and shine. It is also extremely forgiving! If you don’t like the look of a section or if you have a scratch or trouble spot you simple glue more paper over the top. I’ve already had a few touch up spots.

 

You can see what it looks like to put new paper over old. The picture on the right is this same spot, looking down, after it’s dried. The “fix” fits in perfectly. You can also see how a floor imperfection will show through your work. This seam of two concrete pads is significant. I thought I had enough floor leveler over the seam to hide it. But you can still see perfectly where the seam is. Paper is very thin so imperfections in the floor they’re covering will show through. Prep work pays!

Paper on concrete also looks differently when dried. On a concrete floor I found the paper dried very light compared to that on wood. You also can clearly see the paper sections and seams. The wood floor finish is more even and camouflaged. It’s not hard to see why people like working with it on wood better than concrete. However, that said I still think both look beautiful!

 

So this is where a little control comes in with color. These photos show the natural color, or the look with the paper, unaltered dried. Again, there’s a difference between concrete and wood. Because the only adhesive strong enough to glue the paper to concrete is polyurethane, there is already a coat of protectant on the paper once it’s dried. This means putting any stain for color will be problematic. I did try one small area with a combination polyurethane and stain. It glides on the same way a coat of polyurethane does.

The stained floor is a darker brown. Ironically it’s the same walnut stain as you’ll see on the stairs although it clearly doesn’t look anywhere near that dark on the concrete. For this small space, I used a brush to apply the stained polyurethane. On the rest of the floor I used a paint roller and brushed in the edges to apply the top coats.

On a wood floor you can control color by applying stain directly onto the dried paper and then applying the polyurethane top coats. I found it helpful to run a dry paper towel over the top of the stain to absorb excess stain and better control the look I wanted. I also found the stain remains quite tacky even after drying. I wrapped my feet with some press and seal plastic wrap when applying the first coat of polyurethane, which dried in about four hours. This removed the tacky finish and started the gloss look.

One of the things I’ve loved the most about working with paper is how easy it is. All you need to do is fold over the wet paper to make a straight edge. This was very helpful when applying it to the stairs as there were a lot of straight edges. It was wonderful to see the ugly wood transformed into a picture of perfect edges and beautiful finish.

You can see from the earlier pictures how I used a plastic garbage sack over a small dish to work with the polyurethane to glue the paper down. On the wood it was a simple plastic bowl with a mixture of one part water to one part Elmer’s white glue. One thing I think would be important is to use a water based polyurethane for applying paper to concrete. I think an oil based product would make it harder for the paper to absorb the mixture as well as dry. The paper doesn’t get wet as fast in the polyurethane as it does in the elmer’s glue mixture. I found it much easier to get the paper too wet with the elmer’s glue. When this happens the paper tears, but you quickly learn what the balance is. As long as the paper is adequately wet with glue you won’t need to put additional glue on the floor. You smooth out any air bubbles as you go and let the paper dry.

Here’s the stair’s transformation:

  

The upstairs hard floors will match the color and look of the stairs. It’s a lot of work left but the results are wonderful. It’s the most inexpensive and deeply satisfying DIY project I’ve ever undertaken. It’s been really fun to see this project come together.

 

I’m looking forward to some finished pictures when everything’s done but for now this is a wonderful start!

Ouch!!!

I’m happy to report that Thanksgiving weekend was a real hit. We had a wonderful time skiing in Park City, UT. It was the first time for both our kids. Taylor loved it, Cidnie not so much. In her defense, her boots and mine were definitely not right. She was so focused on how bad her feet hurt she couldn’t do anything else. Consequently, the one run I talked her into trying with me ended in a bit of a disaster…at least for me. I felt the dislocation of the muscles around my tailbone before I touched down on one of two falls she pulled me down on. To say I’m sitting and standing slowly and with great effort is an understatement. Hopefully it will only last a few weeks and I’ll be ship shape again. The day was not a loss though, Cidnie discovered the best hot chocolate on the planet and enjoyed watching for cute boys in the lodge. I’m sad I didn’t get a single picture of any of us on the slopes though. I’ll have to remedy that when we take some local trips this winter.

We had a wonderful dinner family on Thanksgiving Day before driving to Salt Lake City to spend the weekend with Blake’s family. As you can see, the three brothers had a great time playing video games. We also had a very enjoyable family evening on Temple Square taking in the Christmas lights.

  

 

Remember

This is the handout I made this morning for today’s lesson. The quote is from a recent General Young Women’s Broadcast, “Remember Who You Are!” by Sister Elaine S. Dalton. I’m using it for my lesson 41 “The Ability to Succeed”.

 

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